School motivation?

hiho,
My son is in the seventh year of high school and sacked by mдchtig in the last time. in his favorite subject he brings Latin regelmдЯig-expanding, in math and English almost exclusively of four home. all appelle / computer bans unavailing. he claims stдndig, learn and then have understood it if I ask. I myself no longer understand math class 7 unfortunately 🙁 what to do? let him go, let sit there for not? or take him fix from school? It was always his wish to go to the gymn and he fьhlt is because even well-to the school ... I fьrchte, he may eventually no longer bock. or I'm too panicky? he does not want to school, he has, after all, never said .. I also fear that he can not find the connection if he lдsst grind it for too long.
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Thank you
Unona: confused:

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http://www.eltern.de/pubertaet/erziehung-und-entwicklung/269203.html
http://www.eltern.de/pubertaet/schul...te-klasse.html

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My GroЯer now had at the beginning of the seventh and plцtzlich teething problems, now he has again einigermaЯen hochgerappelt.

A four phase I wьrd now time not look the same as dramatic. Is there a Schьlerhilfe with you? With us it offers the Gym closed for the various Hauptfдcher, help with homework and work preparations by Oberstufenschьler. no "right one" Tuition, but not wrong in light Hдngern.

And who writes ones in Latin, can not fail just before gg * be *.

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Look closely: Latin PULLING and in math and English make all (inclusively himself) only pressure. Pressure CAN otherwise cause a back pressure: action = reaction.
And what is stored for concrete in his Gedдchtnis when he learns? Frustration, pain, Versagensдngste, Unverstдndnis, anger, It is-to-puke all-ScheiЯe, Zum-of-the-skin-driving, u.dgl.m. How is he in this huge pile of manure still some of the "material" For that he needs? Ьberleg times why I-can-school rule heiЯt: "Do not crooked little finger fьrs learning before you did not put yourself in the state in which you may like to remember it again!"
How to get there?
You have to maintain another Verhдltnis to his math and English-TALENT as your son do it. Put yourself in the role as a talent? Mцchtest to be the math talent of your son? Any doubt you! All put you under pressure! No one understands you! No one tells you a good word! What is needed because in such a situation on nцtigsten to believe in themselves again and develop as a super talent ???
Can you imagine why put in the new I-can-school Talentpf takes precedence over everything? And is so easy! What do you mean, like the vernachlдssigten talents of your son is fьhlen when I start a Gesprдch with them: "I see how good you are ......."
I think your kцnnt the problem well lцsen and person you are seeking you every success.
Franz Josef Neffe

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nephew thank you, that's also in German ??

I always thought I wдre halfway smart, but what are you writing, here comes only as gibberish ....

otherwise I thank the others! I realize I should be more relaxed and let my growing air.

Unona

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Hello my groЯer 14 years is also on high school doing at the time by the same. Was until recently two he and now he has no more support will get down to real school schoolboys. If he do more wьrde He might have also create the high school. can not get ran at him, sitting computer just before his console and above. nothing is more important, no friends call and he answers even with anyone. weiЯ not know what to do at the moment. a girlfriend told me to let him do simple and not put under pressure. this was closed for pupertдt fine but feel so helpless

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Quote by F.J.Neffe Pressure CAN otherwise cause a back pressure: action = reaction.The sentence is wrong so sweeping easy. Many children need the pressure to discipline himself or the learning. I have such a specimen, which sometimes asks me even drum.

Pressure has frьher, of where there were mass produced also by far not only counter-pressure, because this one could not afford!

True, some daЯ off break, and also build some daЯ so much back pressure, which then acts daЯ difficult counterproductive.

But this phrase so common is simply not true!

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My son is 13 and I know the "Apathetical problem" to genьge. He never desire to learn, sits just in front of the TV or from hдngt. Is дtzend. I have tried talking, but nothing helps. Now he has messed up his trial six months at the secondary school and I hope it is a lesson now and he bemьht at the new school. I hope that this phase vorьbergeht ....

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Do you have something done about it? Or just talk?

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Well both. I gave him revealed many Mцglichkeiten. For example, if he better pay attention in school, he comes home with homework better clear. Everything might lдuft better and so he has more free time. And I have always offered him my 'Support. I have now also get a seat at the comprehensive school closed for him and hope he better get along at this school and has more desire to learn.
Is also hard to do the right thing, I think. With penalties such as television ban or house arrest does not go far.