Son 2 1/2 years schlдgt schwдchere children!

My son now 2 1/2 years, schlдgt always smaller or schwдchere children. He pushes the smaller children again and again if any are there. Peers he leaves you time, if the child has something that he wants. Even otherwise, he has lots of energy.

But what do I do best? I say in a severe tone: "No, why do you do that? Apologize! Why did you do that? Why do you always lives?" He laughs often. For SchluЯ he makes "egg", But shortly after, he pushes back.

Some Mьtter are already bцse to him or throw me how to hцrt in smaller remarks inconsistency o.д. in front. He experienced a fairly free education, I find Juul example, very good! I find talking very important. But he must also times into the room when he did something very blцdes.

Maybe someone good advice weiЯ

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Quote by GianelleMy son now 2 1/2 years, schlдgt always smaller or schwдchere children. He pushes the smaller children again and again if any are there. Peers he leaves you time, if the child has something that he wants. Even otherwise, he has lots of energy.

But what do I do best? I say in a severe tone: "No, why do you do that? Apologize! Why did you do that? Why do you always lives?" He laughs often. For SchluЯ he makes "egg", But shortly after, he pushes back.

Some Mьtter are already bцse to him or throw me how to hцrt in smaller remarks inconsistency o.д. in front. He experienced a fairly free education, I find Juul example, very good! I find talking very important. But he must also times into the room when he did something very blцdes.

Maybe someone good advice weiЯ
No, why do you do that? Apologize! Why did you do that? Why do you always lives ??


Far too long text that does not hцrt out.

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Yes, I can already think of me! I should just say well, "No! Hцr on! Apologize!" But he does it directly thereafter.

With peers, it is only rarely, but with much jьngeren much цfter!

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I also think that's too much text. a short "No! We do not cut!" and pick up the child from the situation. He's only 2 1/2 and thus fully in spite of age.

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Easy:

"No, I do not want you lives!"
Short and sweet.
And move away, or get out of the situation. Alternatively still kьmmern killed victims.

"Apologize!" I find inappropriate, then the fьhrt easily become a carte blanche to the motto: I can each cut when I apologize afterwards (or "Excuse me" say what excuse exactly, so with help feeling sorry that he does not understand anyway).

The whole "Why?"-Thematik I find absolutely ьberfordernd closed for a 2.5 jдhrigen what's he going to say ??? Which makes the impulsive.

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Huhu!

Schцn to read you again

So we have the problem so rum but not the other way around ... Glьck S. is stдndig beaten by her friend these days ... she does it but only in children who do not fight back ... (whether the same age or дlter)
Unfortunately, my daughter wьrde rather discuss how 1000X Go Back to nudge 1x or to cut ... we tell her, although always it is to fight back but she does not halt ... Last I went and got put into lightning fast her arm and Mдdchen so quasi Go Back pushed (with mum previously discussed)
My Mouse hats do not really get it but the neighbor's daughter ... oh wonderful ... since then rest ... not a shove more ...

What I want to say ... I think it is both a testing of limits on other people, on the other hand, uncertainty gegenьber the smaller child ... my mouse like it as ьberhaupt if a small child can not not talk and she can not verstдndigen with him ...

I wьrd hand hold when mцglich before and briefly say "No, we do not cut"
Do not show your own insecurity or Bestьrzung that makes it even more interesting closed for him
remain calm and objective!
Why questions kцnnen the kids at that age usually still ьberhaupt answer nciht because the Grundverstдndnis closed for "Why" often still missing ...

LG Cessa

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Quote by GianelleBut what do I do best? I say in a severe tone: "No, why do you do that? Apologize! Why did you do that? Why do you always lives?" He laughs often. For SchluЯ he makes "egg", But shortly after, he pushes back.
which closed for an answer do you expect to these questions? even IF he respond KЦNNTE on why do you ask that? vцllig ьberflьssig because there are closed for hew's no reasonable erklдrung. closed for anybody.
So: clear bid. "No!" enough yet. and the stop time again. again and again. again and again. nerve-exhausting, but unumgehbar. stay tuned.

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so if you ever talk to him darьber, tell him why you do not want it and ask him not why he does it.

Erklдre but him that it hurts the other boy when he hits and no longer like mцchte play with him.

So establish cause and effect. Vlt. works out so, but I suppose it is like so soft a test of patience.

Alternatively ankьndigen times when he hits, you go home and he can not play anymore. he does then it pull through, vlt. helps more.

There are no flat rate Lцsung closed for all children is enough to Glьck each other ...

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I schlieЯe me time to more 🙂

Do you expect really an answer ???? Not serious right? So then do not ask, but give a clear and verstдndfliche statement: No, I do not want you punish.

If he is alert enough, you can still go on and erlдutern that hurts cut, the other children no longer want to play with him - and that did not cut him.

I myself wьrde give to a consequence. I mцchte not want you lives. If you do that again, you are no longer allowed to play with xy / we mьssen go unfortunately. Anything that suits the situation and is directly related. but then also run through.

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Quote by GianelleMy son now 2 1/2 years, schlдgt always smaller or schwдchere children. He pushes the smaller children again and again if any are there. Peers he leaves you time, if the child has something that he wants. Even otherwise, he has lots of energy.
Only mla for clarification: Your child is full komen normal. At this age, they learn the basic rules of social behavior, to gehцrt also test how others react to my actions, whether the reaction is always the same, like mom responds, I get dafьr attention or not ... When the LEARN a child there.

But what do I do best? I say in a severe tone: "No, why do you do that?
Дhдm, and you expect all seriousness an answer? If not then it is unnцtig to ask such a question.
Apologize!
He weiЯ still nciht times WHY and to apologize yet? Want that he goes zukьnftig and it skin and then says sorry or do you want that he unterlдЯt hewing? Depending you can natьrlcih so go ahead and take a different path.
Why did you do that?
Also, he is at an age Siche do not know, and certainly not kцnnen erklдren you decidedly. He's only two and a half!
Why do you always lives?"
I've already erklдrt you why he does that. But it is not worthwhile to ask Him.
He laughs often.
This is a gesture of embarrassment. Vцllig normal and please evaluate nciht as laughing at or sneer.
For SchluЯ he makes "egg", But shortly after, he pushes back.
Yes, that dues have indeed taught him now.

Some Mьtter are already bцse to him or throw me how to hцrt in smaller remarks inconsistency o.д. in front.
Closed for me, you do not sound inconsequential but helpless. You look at it as a bad child that YOUR skin that shows aggression. And because you should work. It is normal that a child makes at that age. What is important is how signals the child to let it zukьnftig.
He experienced a fairly free education, I find Juul example, very good! I find talking very important. But he must also times into the room when he did something very blцdes.

Maybe someone good advice weiЯ Juul certainly never says the child to apologize. And he will certainly say nict you should ask your Zweijдhriges why skin. Freedom hцrt there on where the freedom of others anfдgt. And hewing stцrt the freedom of others.

A adдquate reaction on your part wдre mцglichst intervene BEFORE skin the child, including only mla remain in his Nдhe. Then hold arm, NO, I mцchte nciht that you punish (or it will not cut)! say and then just to make nothing more. No excuse ekien punishment ekin bцses word. Just getting the same reaction. I wьrde by 2-3 times no let a consequence follow. On the playground e.g. play off alone or if it is bad to go home.

And if the child skin because it wants zurьckhaben his toy can make together an alternative Lцsung with the child. For example, after this "No..." on "You mцchtest Go Back have your toy? But then the child in question, come, we make the time together" and then just ask the child hand stop etc. So set an example how to do it properly.


And you made himself clear: "No, do not do that" is not clear enough. There are 1,001 Mцglichkeiten still to amchen it wrong. One should say WAS the child can do instead or should. This is clear, that is verstдndlich closed for a child, so it can learn.
AuЯerdem needs a Verhaltensдnderung about 3-4 weeks in age. So you'll mьssen you adjust immerwдhrender readiness at one month. Before you really should not expect any success. The wдre ьbertrieben.

I wьnsch you much Glьck learn from.