Low frustration tolerance

Just the term I ran in fear Freis Posting informed about the way.

Is that an issue in grundsдtzlich HB-children?

We were last in Entwicklungsgesprдch KiGa addressed the fact that our child hдtte a low frustration tolerance.

but since I have not had the HB topic on the list and did not make me more a drum Kopp.

But today - nearly a year after the Gesprдch and just before the nдchsten - his frustration tolerance has increased not essential.

How can I help him?

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Hello!
Partial answer: It is not grundsдtzlich an issue, but up here in the forum quite often.

How can you help others know better than me. we did not THE problem ...: rolleyes:

LG
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Quote by janlutmeh_1Just the term I ran in fear Freis Posting informed about the way.

Is that an issue in grundsдtzlich HB-children?

We were last in Entwicklungsgesprдch KiGa addressed the fact that our child hдtte a low frustration tolerance.

but since I have not had the HB topic on the list and did not make me more a drum Kopp.

But today - nearly a year after the Gesprдch and just before the nдchsten - his frustration tolerance has increased not essential.

How can I help him?Hello,

I weiЯ not know if it is with children hb unlike normal gifted children.

I think unabhдngig by the talent of the children should show them Mцglichkeiten deal differently with their Gefьhlen.

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My daughter was very pronounced. The fact that she could almost everything right away, she has always thought that if they can not handle something new now perfect, it is bloed. What has well helped us was instrumental teaching. She started with five years to take piano lessons. can play the piano no one to practice with no straight away. In the beginning what it terrible at every wrong note she is howling ran away. But she's doing can make the experience that you can work things out with patience and diligence - an experience that it was not able to offer the school. She's still a perfectionist, but can handle it better.
I do think that something like this is more frequently under HB children - because they are so often accustomed to everything falling to them and can handle it poorly, if something does not work right away.
I think you have the child somehow create the opportunity to experience frustration and to overcome, so that it develops the confidence. can completely eliminate one this predisposition but probably not.
rain trude

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Frustration tolerance muЯ be geьbt.
Here is a copy of my post a few days earlier on another thread дhnlichen (Dislike again tap overall):

We work with our daughter since informed about two years ago specifically to the frustration tolerance (she is now fьnf) and it helps. At every opportunity, we make them aware, daЯ with all new things that you have not known, one rule applies: ЬBEN, ЬBEN, ЬBEN !!!

If someone something can very well and she is really impressed, we always point out daЯ DER has that well geьbt much / until he learned it so well.

Etc. Etc.

However, we learn about new things and show her there also demonstrative, daЯ not want us to succeed even without ьben.

Today she comments failed attempts with a terse 'no geьbt enough' (annoying when you just throw dinner in the Mьlleimer muЯte) and often thinks she mцchte be ungestцrt because they still ьben muЯ.

Begin quickly so on, trying not to be too perfect as adults - every mistake you make and may the notice to your child helps him to learn to cope more easily with his own mistakes.

LG

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Quote by janlutmeh_1Just the term I ran in fear Freis Posting informed about the way.

Is that an issue in grundsдtzlich HB-children?

We were last in Entwicklungsgesprдch KiGa addressed the fact that our child hдtte a low frustration tolerance.

but since I have not had the HB topic on the list and did not make me more a drum Kopp.

But today - nearly a year after the Gesprдch and just before the nдchsten - his frustration tolerance has increased not essential.

How can I help him?Firstly: I do not think that a low frustration threshold zusammenhдngt with Hb.
But certainly with the age of the child.
Little children reflect with 4, 5 years already so ьberlegt that they do not mьssen through this strenuous period.
However, I have noticed with my Hbchen that they sometimes refuse anything because they know that the result of their efforts not entsprдche their lofty demands - precisely because they know full well that the frustration to groЯ wдre.
This is certainly hдufig observed in connection with Hb.

Secondly: rain trude has already written that the matter probably never quite "outgrow" is - is safe typabhдngig.
Instrumental lessons are a great idea. Here daughter child has also learned a lot of patience.
However, her teacher (thankfully a good soul ...) and let some feathers mьssen ...
For example, I asked again why he never plays to the new Stьcke first.
He was vцllig shocked and said that he mьsste then fear for life and limb because his daughter child hдtte ausdrьcklich prohibited - it wants to develop any new Stьck completely change (under fachmдnnischer instructions natьrlich)!

What "bemдgelt" the kindergarten because in detail?
Perhaps otherwise everything lдuft too smooth (Fittes child) and they wanted to get rid of just also something negative ...

All the best!

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Quote by rain trudeMy daughter was very pronounced. The fact that she could almost everything right away, she has always thought that if they can not handle something new now perfect, it is bloed.Just as with my son ...

But there also helps Instr.Unterricht not really ... 🙁

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Closed for our daughter to hit the same way with the instrument lessons. But until now it has not been so much better. Sometimes they manage to remember the Ьbe experience and not freak out, but often, unfortunately, only in retrospect. Yet each new Stьck and every mistake is a challenge. but the experience is extremely valuable and I think even better and in time it ...

Son is not so bad - he can freak out if it did not work out, but that generally he sits down (very relaxing closed for me) with much more tranquility to the Ьben.

Love GrьЯe

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Musical instrument has also been been my idea. However, the music school never calls Go Back * * grumml. You see, just dig deeper again today.