Baptism who to invite?

Had just once again with my husband a discussion ...

Situation: His family left the church, which is why only my brother comes as godfather in question (also both agree, my brother).
We wanted to celebrate tiny baptism, now erцffnet my husband, that he gave his Onklel, aunt, cousins ​​(all with accompaniment) should invite!
said Hab we do mьssen anything he says yes - that new point of contention.

Let your your baptisms? If so, whom ladest your one?

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Quote by Klene82Had just once again with my husband a discussion ...

Situation: His family left the church, which is why only my brother comes as godfather in question (also both agree, my brother).
We wanted to celebrate tiny baptism, now erцffnet my husband, that he gave his Onklel, aunt, cousins ​​(all with accompaniment) should invite!
said Hab we do mьssen anything he says yes - that new point of contention.

Let your your baptisms? If so, whom ladest your one?Yes, we are baptized our child and invite those who come mцchten. Or. said family (see my thread family) no longer. But also with the condition that this is not a Nebenherfest but our faith. And who thus has a problem, please should not come.
Must say, we both come from nichtglдubigen families.

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So my daughter is not baptized, and this child is not getauft.Das MUST BE then decide for yourself.

But on the subject, I then wьrde only the aunts and uncles of the child and invite Grandma and Grandpa u.s.w.also not my uncle and his cousin or something ....

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We do not baptize our child. We are both not Christians so we do not have this problem.

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So my son I baptized ..

Here were just my parents, his both godmothers (are both friends of mine that I have nearly 30 years of know), plus a very good friend of my parents, who has known me since I was 6 weeks old .. (The wanted eigtl godfather but is nich in the church .. ;-))

Then my grandma, and two good friends from my parents .. and its annex

And that was it...

I wanted not so groЯ me hдtte there been enough if my parents and godparents & godfather, who is officially no one been there wдren .. 😉

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Quote by Klene82Had just once again with my husband a discussion ...

Situation: His family left the church, which is why only my brother comes as godfather in question (also both agree, my brother).
We wanted to celebrate tiny baptism, now erцffnet my husband, that he gave his Onklel, aunt, cousins ​​(all with accompaniment) should invite!
said Hab we do mьssen anything he says yes - that new point of contention.

Let your your baptisms? If so, whom ladest your one?We will baptize our child. The ceremony will also be more in "small" Frame instead because we do not want to go to a restaurant and limited is room in our apartment. So my parents and siblings with partner and child and the parents of my friend plus sister and friend and godfather to come up with his girlfriend. Overall, the 16 people (us included).

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Quote by Klene82Had just once again with my husband a discussion ...

Situation: His family left the church, which is why only my brother comes as godfather in question (also both agree, my brother).
We wanted to celebrate tiny baptism, now erцffnet my husband, that he gave his Onklel, aunt, cousins ​​(all with accompaniment) should invite!
said Hab we do mьssen anything he says yes - that new point of contention.

Let your your baptisms? If so, whom ladest your one?must mьssen you nothing!

I think it's bad if you only einlдdt certain people because it gehцrt way. but I can imagine that one can thus offend quite schцn. darьber you have to be clear.

I am not baptized and do not intend to be baptized our children. my friend is catholic, but it is not important to him. his family either. only his grandma asks seen ... since I do not yet weiЯ how she finds. so far we have sailed around the topic. is just a different generation.

Invite I wьrde clearly only family, which has close and someone has written as here, not zwangslдufig MY aunts etc. but that of the child. auЯer I person you are seeking me that all come. which takes's otherwise ausmaЯe to ....

well, I hope you kцnnt still klдren. because you should already behind standing together. which is ultimately the most important!

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We will not let the child baptized.

In general, we are but managed to hold it so that both families are invited to family events. but we have the advantage that both of us holds the further away the Relatives the further away they live also. Closed for times just nen afternoon many are there simply not come.

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Our child is not baptized.

But as already have some said I would only "main" Invite people. So godfather, your parents, etc.

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I'll invite everyone who wьrden are otherwise directly after birth on the mat for the christening.