From three children own fault?!?

Hello everybody,

finds her sometimes so? If one more than the "normal" 1-2 children is, one may not seek more advice at once occasionally be ьberfordert or whining again?

We have three children who are 5, 3 and 1. Especially since the little one now lдuft I come with other Mьttern fast times meaning that I have a feel of it is hardly Verstдndnis closed for everyday problems. I know enough Mьtter that come from time to time to their limits with 2 children, or even with one, because you have Verstдndnis that MUST BE be sometimes dissatisfied.
When everything goes a bit stressed with me and is not so easy coming fast this "ja-had-the-because-well-be" Thought. While saying tuts not quite right, but I can tell already that there is no available.
Right next door lives a single child mother, who have long been waiting for her a child and now this is a very wild boy, who is also quite verwцhnt. Should I say: Well own fault, you wanted to but sure? No, I'll take me also time to zuzuhцren her when she's not on white ...


About you that too sometimes? How do you go about it? Or vielleicth I expect there simply too much?
I certainly have a feel of women with "normal" For Number of children sometimes also encouragement when they need it, at exactly the same problems (for example, Tantrum on the bus), wдhrend with more children then comes quickly: Well some of you have so many, is not a miracle. Or: Well, you wanted to you three do have, is clear that there is now more action is ...

Thank fьrs "to read"I just have to get rid of times.

Love Grьsse
Kerstin

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Quote by Kerstin_001Hello everybody,

finds her sometimes so? If one more than the "normal" 1-2 children is, one may not seek more advice at once occasionally be ьberfordert or whining again?

We have three children who are 5, 3 and 1. Especially since the little one now lдuft I come with other Mьttern fast times meaning that I have a feel of it is hardly Verstдndnis closed for everyday problems. I know enough Mьtter that come from time to time to their limits with 2 children, or even with one, because you have Verstдndnis that MUST BE be sometimes dissatisfied.
When everything goes a bit stressed with me and is not so easy coming fast this "ja-had-the-because-well-be" Thought. While saying tuts not quite right, but I can tell already that there is no available.
Right next door lives a single child mother, who have long been waiting for her a child and now this is a very wild boy, who is also quite verwцhnt. Should I say: Well own fault, you wanted to but sure? No, I'll take me also time to zuzuhцren her when she's not on white ...


About you that too sometimes? How do you go about it? Or vielleicth I expect there simply too much?
I certainly have a feel of women with "normal" For Number of children sometimes also encouragement when they need it, at exactly the same problems (for example, Tantrum on the bus), wдhrend with more children then comes quickly: Well some of you have so many, is not a miracle. Or: Well, you wanted to you three do have, is clear that there is now more action is ...

Thank fьrs "to read"I just have to get rid of times.

Love Grьsse
KerstinYes, I know such reactions also.
For Glьck but ьberwiegen the other where me "normal" Parents even once admiration is pronounced ...

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Characteristic that too!
But for Glьck I will also admired by many! How do I manage the three, they wьrden not even with two almost go get!
I have a feel of it does not matter how many children you have, it is always stressful and if you have more, you manage somehow .... When I only had one child, I also complained often that everything is exhausting! I Hдtte then know that I will have three times ....

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Yes you are probably right. It's always stressful 🙂 The other day was my childless sister to visit, she could hardly what join (did not even eat cooked or so) because she was so exhausted from watching 🙂

But that was sometimes quite good, so I could see how I've actually my time rumgebracht when I still had no children again. but they fдllt in the division: Well, what you have so many ...

Sometimes I also like wьrde hцren times that we do actually quite well with ours. But perhaps also due to the residential area. Here just live rather the classic families.

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I do not even trust myself to "whine"! Our No. 2 is very wild (ADHD stands in the room), I come almost to the limit. But I try just to be particularly strong or appear that way.

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Quote by Kerstin_001I certainly have a feel of women with "normal" For Number of children sometimes also encouragement when they need it, at exactly the same problems (for example, Tantrum on the bus), wдhrend with more children then comes quickly: Well some of you have so many, is not a miracle. Or: Well, you wanted to you three do have, is clear that there is now more action is ...
First I must say that I find three children as normal as anything! And Glьck sees my environment obviously so, for These kinds of reactions, as you have described here, I've never experienced before! And if so, then I wьrde ignore them!

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yes I know well.
My braves and defies and is for real time "дtzend"
In the playgroup it is also just the Querschlдger ... ALWAYS comes the sentence ..."na otherwise he muЯ is indeed at home prevail ..!"

However, I understand no Einzelkindmьtter of super brave much schlдfern the kцnnen then whine that they not even take a shower alone ...

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I agree 100% !!!

(Also on neighbor-Only Child)

Yes, since we have no. 3, we ourselves are to blame. Since then helping a nobody, rдt me any more what, and D no one has freed me the third time a seat on the bus. (Here's hardly buses, as you do not notice it so)
funny how different are the reactions when you're pregnant, alone or with only one child go. Since all but one look at all vertrдumt than wдre you beschьtzenswert.

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That's what I mean ... sometimes I dare hardly even time to indicate that this organization of the various Bьdьrfnisse (and I mean my own not even) not just always everything is simple and supi.

I do that only when friends who also have at least two little children. Then rejoice in some cases that someone finally admits how moody and you mьde for example, be myself once may teething baby after 3 Nдchten, "Mommy, I have to go to the toilet" 5jдhrigem and "can I sleep with you 3 jдhrigem"

That with the "seem so" so I can now quite well. And yet, because there are days when I stay at home because I have a feel of it comes degree nothing.

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Yes, I have a colleague also. super braves Vielschlдfer baby, she peeled fresh and out of the egg. Now she said the other day: "Oh last night was soooo hard, because he is woken up three and I had to nurse him" (Child 5 months old) I: "Oh dear, did you have him then carry around a lot?" (As far as my experience with my 3s) you: "No, no, thank God he schlдft always immediately continue",
Next I have the discussion informed about the sleeping habits of my children not recessed merh 😉

A friend (a relatively braves 1-jдhriges) was only a week to visit and then said to my question whether she is happy to go home again after the hustle: No, they wдr very much been there, here she notes Always, how much free time they kцnnte to establish if it addresses some things just a little more efficient, I do wдre always with my 3s before the Tьr, they wдhrend "even the tights" Search her daughter wьrde 😉 The time was really a nice comment 🙂