it’s a boy and I’m not looking forward

Hello my dears,
some here mцgen me indeed closed for an insensitive cow hold but I have to write it off my chest.
Since the beginning of the pregnancy, actually from the day of conception "knew" I it is a Mдdchen.
Yesterday, the Frauenдrztin has taken me this illusion, saying it will def. a boy, you can see everything so schцn.
I was messed up with the world! I could not look and started to cry, it only fьhlte like a Fremdkцrper inside me. No matter how many times they emphasized that it was still alive and that was the most important.
I can not imagine where is my little Mдdchen me easy ....

Is that so ungewцhlich which one is enttдuscht when you find out the sex. I mean I fьhle nothing plцtzlich closed for the little one inside me, it's just strange. I mцchte no longer plan or set up or anything what.

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What are you writing berьhrt me a lot because I felt in my first pregnancy as well.

I was soooo sure from the beginning that it is a Mдdchen. All else around me too. There was simply nothing other conceivable.
When we learned that it's a boy, I was really shocked. The hцrt is bad, but it was tatsдchlich way.
However, I have not let it show my Enttдuschung. But I have taken some time to digest the news. That just could not be that a Boy wдchst in my stomach.
If I hцrte of someone who has a Mдdchen expected that each time gives me a pang.

I then ьberlegt why I feel that way. My whole GroЯfamilie is very "mдdchendominant", The women are all strong women top formed. All the firstborn were always ausschlieЯlich Mдdchen.

The boys, especially the children, who I knew from the area, were all "bullies"Boys with baggy pants and cars on the T-shirt, push in the sandbox with each other from the chute. I did not want. This typical boys-mom (around once again the clichés) I always found awful.

And you weiЯt what? Our son is what has happened to us all-all-the very best! I have never seen a more attentive, more empathic, more cautious, calm their contained 2 jдhrigen. When in kindergarten crying child, he is the first who is with him and is a Kьsschen and blows his Ouch.

And now? Now I secretly hope that the new baby is a boy. I can not imagine me just ьberhaupt what it's like to have a Mдdchen. Especially the Mдdchen in my husband's family are all little princesses dressed in Rьschen * * schьttel.
On the other hand, it wдre also just great to get a Mдdchen to kцnnen refute the gender stereotypes once more.

I weiЯ not know if it helps you written. But you fьhl it pressed and understood. And I can assure you that you'll love a shock ьberwinden will and you your little boy informed about everything in the world!
In Rьckblick I think sometimes how stupid I was; actually that's not true. I am now just gained another key life experience that I had not yet made. It has certain ideas about life and it's good that life has its own Plдne.

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Thank lavender honey,
that drives me just the Trдnen in the eye, I thought this can not be, I fьhle so I'm really a terrible mother because I can not be happy informed about my little boy.

But to read you, that gives hope.

Funny it is anyway, I'm a little ьberfordert with the situation.

lg

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I feel the same as you. While I look forward to our son, but I also hдtte rather have had a Mдdchen, especially since all with me have said it is a Mдdchen. Blцde Trдume I hдtt times getrдumt from a Mдdchen
So I was enttдuscht, because it is a challenge or is closed for me. The first fruits child I also like a hдtt Mдdel because I just can not imagine that my child then abkapselt in Pubertдt. Well, that make Mдdchen too, but with which one can make shopping even schцne Mдdelsnachmittage go etc. I think a boy is the legal -to embarrassing. But I've already written so many times that we love our child anyway, only if you stop already andre "imaginations" has, then you are still enttдuscht something that it did not work. I think the joy will come when you hдlst your bundle of joy for the First Time in the arm 🙂

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Insensitive I find you not now but I must admit I also once geschьttelt head. But I can imagine how it is when you have what specific in the head and then not so! Do not try to stiffen up too much on sex, basically it's really no matter what has currently really health and you can keep your sьЯen boy in January healthy and lдchelnd in her arms. When the first "shock" is ьberstanden the joy is sure. I've never seen a pregnant woman who has not been happy informed about their child auЯer it was natьrlich unerwьnscht, that's something else again.

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I can understand that you -After you were so ьberzeugt that there were a Mдdel actual first enttдuscht. Now that I've processed slowly that number three is to be a Mдdel it wдre also first be funny if it wьrde heiЯen the nдchsten US: there is clearly a penis. But more important is that with the baby everything is in order, as if there's something dangling between their legs or not.
I could see myself never as a boy mom and am now very happy. Guys are great! And believe me, it will be you do not care what sex the child, if you hдltst it in her arms.
So let the outing bag and Rejoice at your boy.

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When I got the boys outing in my first pregnancy, my first thought was original "ScheiЯe, now we need nen boy names!" already so I had a Jungsgefьhl but hдtte "Dear" had a Mдdel (clear where you but from personal experience weiЯ how dear, sьЯ and gaaaaaaar not even been complicated as a child!).
Am also shocked half out to the doctor and got a first name book bought to do irgndwas.
In my mind's eye I saw my son spontaneously with 15 drunk on nerve moped Jack-ass stunts vollfьhren (well, or so дhnlich ...) and was served.

After a few days, but has set, you have to take anyway, what you get ... and quite honestly, guys are sooooooooo great! I am very proud to have such a sьЯen, loving, active and diverse interests and son just hope he saves me in the least Pubertдt the moped number ...

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So I think it's completely okay that you as honestly report your thoughts here but really understanding I quite honestly do not nimms was not nauseous. Every child is different, all come with their own unique personality structure in the family because the family is surely rather unimportant. If you think you 'your girl' even before you saw did and had a clear idea how they would be, then that's really pure imagination, you can never guess will be like a child, loud, shy, athletic, musical, class clown or wallflower. The variables are endless. Whatever you hAdT imagined as 'my girl', you would not get anyway: D
I really do not mean rude, honestly.
also you will indeed safe troesten you with demGedanken that it ha probably completely out of the question is that you will love your child more than you ever loved a person and your son will be the most valuable thing is or what you need to protect your life. everything else is secondary 🙂

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So, I'm like that. However, it is probably my third son. (Do not have 100% outing, but a strong tendency)

That's why I wanted a Ь egg, but it was seen in the US also closed for me, although it was only 14 ssw ... XD

However, that's up to me the fact that I had a special connection to my mother (I weiЯ that it can also be very different and not so come mьsste) and because I will now never know how a small Mдdchen by me / us hдtte looked.

And all though I ever had and a FG just really am tatsдchlich glad that everything is in order.

I understand that one is sad and I understand that the main thing to say healthy!

However, I wьrde any of my guys want to trade! And love does to the child anyway once it's there!

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Quote by Wasabi NussSo, I'm like that. However, it is probably my third son. (Do not have 100% outing, but a strong tendency)

That's why I wanted a Ь egg, but it was seen in the US also closed for me, although it was only 14 ssw ... XD

However, that's up to me the fact that I had a special connection to my mother (I weiЯ that it can also be very different and not so come mьsste) and because I will now never know how a small Mдdchen by me / us hдtte looked.

And all though I ever had and a FG just really am tatsдchlich glad that everything is in order.

I understand that one is sad and I understand that the main thing to say healthy!

However, I wьrde any of my guys want to trade! And love does to the child anyway once it's there!I can sign anything! I am also informed about a third boy, especially after I had a FG beginning of the year, but it wдre closed for me a little sad that I wьrde then never have endgьltig a daughter.
With us, the tendency is yes a Mдdchen. Let's see if the proof being the fine-US.
I wanted so let ьberraschen, but my husband had to know.