To sleep silent vs. By sleeping (long)

So far I have only read along here and now a problem that beschдftigt me for a few days.
My daughter is now 7.5 months old. It was exclusively breastfed until 4 weeks. Then we have now started with lunch and with Abendbrei. In between (if I frьh or afternoon eat) there is apple. She eats no infinite sets, but is interested. was satisfied and will always did when she wanted. That was i.d.R. tagsьber every 2 sins. Dafьr it is night come rarely a while.
And at night is my problem: I always silent it since 4 months to sleep because we realized at the time that we, saving us hours of cry actions. This has gefьhrt to the fact that she always wants to his chest when it is awake. Since gefьhlten two months is stьndlich. Since she now has four Zдhne, the continuous sucking hurts sometimes fairly. And now me a consultant said that this is very bad closed for their Zдhne. It wдre gьnstiger to reduce on every 3 hours. I try Coll, abzugewцhnen her in-the-sleep-breastfeeding, breastfeeding before and then to cuddle and hold. Because I think that sleep thus kцnnen but the prerequisite dafьr be mьsste, go back to sleep at night kцnnen. The result is that they pretty hдufig cries herself to sleep on my arm. And it's not really better at night.
I'm not sure what I should do. On the one hand I mцchte give her what she needs. And it is more convenient closed for me, at night easy to apply and good (family bed ...). On the other hand, I mцchte you miss, do not let my nipples suck completely sore and do wonder, when is it enough to go back to only Kцrperkontakt no caries. Third beschдftigt me if she really kцnnte stьndlich hunger. Only then mьsste yes provide the Abendbrei closed for relaxation. You schlдft also usually after a few sips again and has only one or two lдngere drinking phases in between. With whom I kцnnte live well ...
Uff is long. Thank fьrs reading. And maybe someone has a tip closed for us.

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Hello,

So I do not think that sleep what to do with it did not einschlafzustillen his child.
I do that still. however our now so far that she wants to sleep but sometimes einschlдft on my stomach and I then set aside not always to his chest. but has made our only after 12 months of age.
In the period where your now come new perceptions should be processed the evening. As you can see right as always come iweder new things.
They crawl more of mom away day and the Nдhe to get back at night. This is completely normal. And if you ever some other stuff lieЯt You'll see it many others, goes into the period that.
At night also awake have other a pacifier.
to want if you have a feel of more einschlafstillen then do that.
I wьrde since start nothing a year ago. 1
The dwarf caries gets from sucking at her breast, I can not imagine.
There are getting to be born with a tooth or ziehmlich frьh Zдhnchen children.
Nature has already set up that way.
The only thing you can possibly do. Is your child to say which makes it Ouch.
but since I can not much help because our their first tooth at 10 months and get as it has been understood that they could not pinch or beiЯen. What she has never done.

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Quote by azaleaBecause I think that sleep thus kцnnen but the prerequisite dafьr be mьsste, go back to sleep at night kцnnen. The result is that they pretty hдufig cries herself to sleep on my arm. And it's not really better at night.so is but your theory obsolete, right?
what are you doing when you awake at night?
silent or offer water? give nothing to drink?
the caries problem-can be outside before mE.
important is: what do you want?
not einschlafstillen?
no longer silent night?
then cause gentler something exactly where you want to have changed anything.
So for example, at night no longer silent. einschlafstillen yes you can still continue. and offer your child then at night water, because thirst should not yes.

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My daughter is jьnger (5.5 months) and is old since she is 12 weeks stьndlich 2stьndlich up.

Then she wants to breastfeed.
Eventually 2 weeks ago was then my pain threshold reached or ьberschritten because they do not schlдft and I can not lie down with her tagsьber me.
Slightly better was that she has heiЯt after sleep times slept a few hours when I've just aufgehцrt with the Einschlafstillen also tagsьber. Before she woke up constantly and examined me. is yes schцn and good and sьЯ and so but I kpnnte and did not want the weilwir neither family life nor do I let had a life of its own. I is still a son of 2.5.
So she gets a bottle бbend HA1 and once they will get Abendbrei so in one week- midday meal I acuh been replaced - what I'll try what is called Brustentwцhnung at night - I read at around baby.
Closed for everything else I'm persцnlich not created and that must aufhцren night with us or to perhaps even runtergefahrne be.

I've already started cautiously trцsten different and so and it seems to work.

Closed for the US is the right way.
GrьЯe

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kцnnen asleep alone and sleep are not functional verknьpft together. "proof"My children: D
My twins were never einschlafgestillt. Until then No.3 1 time (!) Night fell, she was already 11 months old.

The Junior is, say, einschlafgestillt since birth for 3 1/4 years. He is now actually a Durchschlдfer - despite Einschlafstillen.

Zдhne: My twins who were breastfed * evening before * Zдhneputzen were right frьh 1-3 Kariesfдlle. The hцrte on the second Zдhnen. It is (good dental hygiene vorqausgesetzt) ​​a genetic thing ...

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Hello,

It is convenient to feed the child to sleep, but it was so with us, the (now 8 months old) sometime ьberhaupt could not sleep otherwise my baby. It went well for a time (has 7-8 hours a Stьck slept through). However, the last 3 months were the Hцlle, I could hardly sleep, the baby had offered my chest at night in bed with me and as soon as he yelled, not otherwise calm lieЯ, I have. he has every 1-2 hours screamed, I wuЯte really do not know what to do, did it long pushed onto the teeth. My Kinderдrztin then told me to put him awake into (own) bed. I looked at the book yet "Every child can learn to sleep" gained. Since a good week we do it now so that it is growing down in his bed. It is the beginning connected hard and with a lot of screaming, but after only one week is already a significant improvement to be seen. He wakes up only one time in the night - I calm him briefly (without nursing or food) and he schlдft again. Natьrlich not every child is the same, I can you still recommend it to taste. I wдre been glad it hдtte me before someone gave this tip, had also demand ever (because I thought it still hдngt with Zдhnen together), but no one could really help me.

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Quote by Mrs KI looked at the book yet "Every child can learn to sleep" gained. Since a good week we do it now so that it is growing down in his bed. It is the beginning connected hard and with a lot of screaming, but after only one week is already a significant improvement to be seen.too bad I can not at all to sleep, I would be crying my child for it.
my conception of children"education" do not comply with such a counselor, the resulting climes distancing from the child and his needs, I think for cruel and irresponsible.
very well together are the arguments against this:
http://ferbern.de/

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[QUOTE = rughetta; 9500941] so badly I can not at all sleep, that I would let my child cry for it.



it was not just about my sleep do you not that it is better closed for the child, if it is not stдndig interrupted in his sleep ??
Pretty wicked as you are attacked here equal

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there is a single counter-argument to this book and the method:

Sдuglingsdepression.

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[QUOTE = female-k; 9501561]Quote by rughettatoo bad I can not at all to sleep, I would be crying my child for it.



it was not just about my sleep do you not that it is better closed for the child, if it is not stдndig interrupted in his sleep ??
Pretty wicked as you are attacked here equalat that age, it is normal times now that you wake up at night цfters.
However, I lieЯ never come this far, had to shout the child, so we're both always very fast hinьbergedдmmert out of the half-sleep to deep sleep.
Child learned strangely sleep through despite einschlafstillen and family bed.